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I want to thank you so much for the personal help I recieved at a time when it seemed no one else had any answers for my situation. The strategies have worked so well, that our marriage and friendship has been changed forever. Margie L |
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My wife coaxed me into a single visit for my anger issues, That turned into 13 more visits. I have always resolved a situation by yelling at anyone that disagreed with me. I got my way but it was'nt worth it after all the battles. I still like things to be my way, but I let go of more than half my potental battles due to their insignificance. I understand how and what to battle over, at least I stay under control. I let her win at times and we both laugh. We have a much better marriage and happier children. Thanks again for the options. Mark W |
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Being a single Mom has been difficult, I actually began to hate everybody and everybody new it. I was ready for the zoo, trying to balance work, children, home, and the ex all week every week. Im incouraged and ready to face the world for the first time in years. Your encouragement and people skills have been my great inspiration. I actually looked foward to our weekly meetings, knowing that I would walk out in a good mood. You can post this letter if you wish on the web site, even use my full name if you want, people arn't so awful after all it was me the whole time! We love you for your encouragement. Fran A |
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My wife left me even though I finally came for help at her request. Actually I had to come all the way from Buffalo to find the help I sought, but it gave me time to think. I came to late to save what was left to my marriage. She said that even though she had already given up on me and found a new guy, I needed to do this course for myself. She was correct in that statement, even though I had hoped for reconcilliation. I learned much about living and getting along with people, especially women. If I had it to do over again, she would not recognize me as the same man. I realize now that things cant always be my way..life is to short. Thanks for the best help I'v ever recieved, you are a real person, that sincerliy seems to care. Angelo M |
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Dear Colette, I have been able to finally get over the angry rages that I used to hurl at my husband and children. Out of my own personal frustrations, I used to put them down in an instant with slang like a sailor. They really stopped paying any attention to my outbursts, but none of them wanted to be around me at home or on vacations. I never felt better after the rage. Today my family actually asked me to join them on a hike along the Genesee river. We had a great time, the kids got muddy, they harrassed each other at times but I was able to stay quiet and smile right through it all. I saw a few nervous glances. I was tested and passed with flying colors as they say. Thank you for actually saving me from a life alone. You will always be my beloved life coach! Susan I |
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I am writting to let you know where I'm at in my life since my wifes secret affair, anger is now past the point of concern. You made me see clearly that whatever my choice, there would be a new sunrise. Anger had me wanting revenge, I am with a wonderful woman that actually thinks and cares about me more than herself. She is the kind of person that wants to take care of other peoples needs before her own. I am blessed to have seen both sides of a marriage. I do not wish my ex wife any ill will, but I actually feel some pity on the next guy that only sees beauty without the heart. Daniel R | |
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